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"A family located in North London is looking for an remarkable and experienced tutor to assist their youngest child on his first steps to growing into an British gentleman."

Looking at this post, you might readily miss the term "initial stages" as mere figurative language.

But, it might be the most significant element of this unusual employment listing, as it attempts to recruit a teacher for a one-year-old.

Numerous of submissions have now been received since the anonymous family posted their call for the highly paid tutor, who needs to be "someone very special".

During the past few weeks, the post has gained interest in the media, with several asking why?

Forward-Thinking Method

Adam Caller, chief executive of a global tutoring firm, which is supporting the family in their quest, stated that despite first doubt, he viewed the idea "visionary", and "innovative".

When he consulted the family, he said they appreciated the atypical nature of their request, and how young their son is.

However, they stated that they "were unwilling to delay any longer" to get a tutor, as they had postponed until their elder sibling was five, and by that age "cultural bias had already taken hold".

But what did the family indicate by "cultural predisposition"?

It's "all-encompassing", the expert answered. "The way you eat, the way you speak".

He stated the firstborn had picked up "extremely delicate, unspoken signals" from the family, and had assumed their cultural ways. The family informed Adam they did not want this pattern to happen again with their infant.

The strategy: To engage a British tutor, who needs to speak with standard English accent, to guide the baby right from the beginning.

Osmotic Learning

"A lot of the education at the beginning here is rather acquired indirectly," said the expert.

It's through this subtle influence that the family are aiming the child will adopt the English characteristics they aim to instil.

He noted the tutor must be somebody who studied at "prestigious academies – the same kinds of schools as the family plan to send their son to".

"The tutor must be the right kind of person, they'll be carrying out things they aren't even aware they're doing, just naturally," he said.

Expense Not a Factor

The family told Adam the chosen tutor should ideally also have knowledge of or passion in riding, skiing, artistic pursuits and instrumental training so as to influence the child in a wide range of hobbies.

Additionally though, he stated the family wanted the tutor to sign up the child on a range of courses so the child would be "pony-riding and picking up an musical instrument by the time they are around three years old".

In the family's view, guiding their son grow into a "English gentleman" will bring about success and open doors.

"Considering the pros and cons of that, because it's definitely a social class indicator," he notes.

However, notwithstanding all this tutelage in "UK identity", could the child pick up so-called cultural bias from the international family he lives with regardless?

"Absolutely", answered he. "The parents understand this might not succeed, but they've merely embraced the attitude of, 'why not attempt it and we should start as soon as we can', because the price of it is irrelevant," he explained.

Impractical

There are some in the tutoring industry who share similar reservations.

Another CEO, CEO and founder of an educational organization, who also offer personal educators, commented that "the development of embracing two identities, or indeed, becoming oneself, is something that must be experienced personally, not designed."

The expert wrote that he had moved from the Far East to the UK at the time of 7 years old, and had been educated experiencing and practicing two backgrounds. He progressed to study at a prestigious UK institution.

"The idea that one individual can act as a embodiment of UK identity, a person who can somehow transplant the attributes of a UK sophisticate to a one-year-old child, appears idealistic and unrealistic," he commented.

"From my perspective, employing a typically English tutor from early childhood will does not instantly produce the goal they hope for.

"I never had that kind of mentor, and however I have been fortunate enough to enjoy many of the situations they desire for their son."

He added: "The truth is, self-identity should not be dictated from the outside; it must be chosen, and it must come from within."

Acquiring Englishness

Certainly, English culture is something the CEO thinks can be educated – and sold.

"I think the reality that the world regards us in this regard is something that we should be cherishing|valuing|appreciating